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Comment by gavinray

Why is this getting downvoted?

This is a legitimate issue, and I'm not even the political/social-justice type.

(I don't mean the company forcing putting pronouns in your username, but for trans/non-binary people to put it in their profile name)

Had an instance at a job once where someone joined, I spoke with them and they were really nice + helpful. Maybe 2 months later, I went looking for them and they didn't seem to be at the company anymore.

Turns out they had changed their username to another gender along with profile pic, now used a different pronoun.

I felt like an ass when I read back to intros and learned that they didn't prefer the pronouns their name/pic implied when they joined. Quite literally "assumed their gender" and they never corrected me about it. Hope it didn't bug them, but it probably did.

parent gavinray 5 years ago

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