I recently tried to join a discord that was tangentially relevant to the trans community and the amount of self-identification they wanted was troublesome to me (region, age, sexual preference, opinion on pronouns/pronouns, etc).
EDIT: well fuck me for sharing, right? 2021 Hacker News karma scores are fucking cold.
EDIT: well fuck me for sharing, right? 2021 Hacker News karma scores are fucking cold.