>no one owes you companionship or a relationship (platonic or not).
That's your opinion.
>is a real problematic stance.
Oh, no, not problematic! What if there are actually external factors that influence your ability to succeed, and you would like to advocate for modifying those external factors to increase your ability to succeed?
That's your opinion.
>is a real problematic stance.
Oh, no, not problematic! What if there are actually external factors that influence your ability to succeed, and you would like to advocate for modifying those external factors to increase your ability to succeed?