The relationship with a potential employer and a romantic interest have the same dynamics between creepy vs confident/hustling. We all have seen examples of both, but if any have tried to project confidence or to hustle to any significant and meaningful degree you run a non-trivial risk of appearing to cross lines / be creepy.
Often it isn’t one or the other. Steve Jobs was both a heartless ass at times while also being a brilliant hustler.
Often it isn’t one or the other. Steve Jobs was both a heartless ass at times while also being a brilliant hustler.