I keep seeing the requests for central management interface, which leave me somewhat puzzled. Why do you need in a home environment? I run a small network with one big router and several access points, and at least with Mikrotik's gear, it's pretty much fire and forget. It has CAPsMAN[1] to centrally manage wireless networks, but I've found it to introduce unneeded complexity. Auto-updates[2] don't need any central management either. Monitoring can be done through SNMP[3], and there's a REST API too[4].
[1] https://wiki.mikrotik.com/wiki/Manual:CAPsMAN
[2] https://wiki.mikrotik.com/wiki/Manual:Upgrading_RouterOS#Rou...
[3] https://wiki.mikrotik.com/wiki/Manual:SNMP
[4] https://help.mikrotik.com/docs/display/ROS/REST+API