How about showing that there actually is discrimination, and structures for enforcing such discrimination? It's usually claims about demographics (#women < #men => discrimination!) or constantly moving the goalposts and redefining STEM as "fields where there are less women" so that they always get the expected demographic outcome. See: https://youtu.be/tbnVAE3BwiM?list=LL&t=936
Why is there never outrage the other way around with fields dominated by women, e.g., psychology?
Why is there never outrage the other way around with fields dominated by women, e.g., psychology?