Well we have to use he/she all the time in the English language in a professional context so i don't really see how it's waving your gender in everyone's face.
I do agree that there is a lot of attention focused on use of pronouns at the moment though, which is why i posed the question to learn more about community opinion in the first place.
I do agree that there is a lot of attention focused on use of pronouns at the moment though, which is why i posed the question to learn more about community opinion in the first place.