In one case it's a message of love. In the other it's a message of hate. You're personally welcome to treat them both the same, but I think you'll find most of society will treat the messages very differently.
If you can't understand why I'd imagine you're going to spend a lot of your life being extremely confused, angry and frustrated.
If you can't understand why I'd imagine you're going to spend a lot of your life being extremely confused, angry and frustrated.