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Comment by jl2718

Or just admit that you don’t know enough to be confident in any explanation.

Maybe you try listening and maybe they will too.

Maybe realize that it’s more important to understand the person in front of you than score points in your own head.

Maybe start with establishing some common values rather than convince them that you’ll never agree on anything.

Maybe realize that some of the things that you are most concerned about are the things you are least rational about, and this may be that thing for them.

parent jl2718 5 years ago

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