What you are doing is important work, not because of butt plugs, but because it is helping normalize talking about sex, and "niche sex," in the tech community (also YouPorn engineering!). Having engineers in the west be open about sex is far better than having nobody open about it.
Openness about sex really is one way to improve the health of the societal zeitgeist.
Openness about sex really is one way to improve the health of the societal zeitgeist.