Same! For instance, it never occurred to me that Black men have to be especially careful about expressing frustration, because white coworkers find any expression of anger from a Black man threatening. But that's what my neighbor, who also works in tech, told me: that he's basically never allowed to object as forcefully as white coworkers, because otherwise he'll get HR complaints.
There's probably a whole lot of shit like this that we just don't know, as a group, about.
There's probably a whole lot of shit like this that we just don't know, as a group, about.