> If I spend hours building a nice report for you and you won't spend 5 minutes reading it and two minutes responding with "sorry but I'm too busy" then who is the entitled one here? Further for you to look at it as an insult?
You? The other maintainer didn't ask you to do that. You're not entitled to even a minute of another person's time just because you unilaterally decided to dedicate hours of yours on something.
> I rarely even send PRs these days because those often rot for months or years.
Mind you, I've rarely sent PRs, but when I do, I do it with the intention to help. Only around half of the PRs I've ever sent were merged, and most of the others were left open without review. You know what I think about them? Nothing, I just conclude that the maintainer is probably too busy or my proposed changes are not within the goals of the project. I then move on and don't let it eat at me.
> let's be great to one another.
I think that includes giving other maintainers the benefit of the doubt. That includes not taking being ignored as a personal insult, I think.
You? The other maintainer didn't ask you to do that. You're not entitled to even a minute of another person's time just because you unilaterally decided to dedicate hours of yours on something.
> I rarely even send PRs these days because those often rot for months or years.
Mind you, I've rarely sent PRs, but when I do, I do it with the intention to help. Only around half of the PRs I've ever sent were merged, and most of the others were left open without review. You know what I think about them? Nothing, I just conclude that the maintainer is probably too busy or my proposed changes are not within the goals of the project. I then move on and don't let it eat at me.
> let's be great to one another.
I think that includes giving other maintainers the benefit of the doubt. That includes not taking being ignored as a personal insult, I think.