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Ask HN: Depression, Loss of Motivation, Feeling Lost. Please Help

I am a college student. I I have been feeling paralyzed and am not able to do anything at all for the past couple of weeks/months. I dug up some old posts from HN to read stuff to find helpful information. Most of the relevant advice pertained to

- change your diet / cut out sugar / healthy stuff

- exercise / releases endorphins / makes you feel better

- go to a doctor / shrink / and talk stuff out.

- get enough sleep

I have made changes to my diet, sleeping more regularly, and exercising every once in a while, on the whole I am a healthy individual. I do also want to add that though I don't think I am burned out, because I have hardly put any effort into anything that I have been doing/done. I was a top 1percentile student in high school, and had a pretty good social life, though I did put in more time to studying stuff then. I am smart enough to get through classes and stuff with little effort at college, but I don't know what the deal with me is. I am unable to concentrate, I can't seem to find motivation to do work, I literally stare the screen for longer than 30 minutes and do nothing. I am in my third year, and well now I have no connection with my peers anymore because they seem to engaged in the partying / drinking phase of life, and though I did have that phase, I can't stand that anymore. I would like to say that I have matured more than my peers, but I am not sure that is entirely true, because if it were, I would have more stuff figured out. I have been holed up by my self pretty much, and well I don't seem to understand what is wrong with me / what i need to do to fix this ? is this just a phase of life ? please help me out, i really don't know what i am asking for, but if you know something that you think could help me, or any personal experiences in the same realm, please let me know. thanks.

41 points throwaway7 15 years ago 47 comments

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