TBF with a completely greenfield project and managed K8s (GKE or EKS) you can absolutely get a pretty well set up infra very quickly if you are willing to learn how to do so.
I often get the feeling a lot of the negativity comes (rightfully so) from trying to replicate a current existing project into kubernetes. This is true of almost any paradigm - try replicating a Java EE monolith into Erlang and you are going to have a lot of problems. The big thing to note is that starting a project on Erlang very well might solve the problems that a Java EE project ran into, but that is because they were able to solve them at the ground floor, and just popping a Java EE project with all of it's architecture into an Erlang project will probably end up in a worse spot.
I think that this is what often happens with k8s as well - if you or your company have a currently working implementation that isn't on k8s, of course you won't be able to just easily plop it into a k8s cluster and everything be all well and good, but I think the problem is that people are equating that issue with k8s itself, which is a completely different paradigm.
I often get the feeling a lot of the negativity comes (rightfully so) from trying to replicate a current existing project into kubernetes. This is true of almost any paradigm - try replicating a Java EE monolith into Erlang and you are going to have a lot of problems. The big thing to note is that starting a project on Erlang very well might solve the problems that a Java EE project ran into, but that is because they were able to solve them at the ground floor, and just popping a Java EE project with all of it's architecture into an Erlang project will probably end up in a worse spot.
I think that this is what often happens with k8s as well - if you or your company have a currently working implementation that isn't on k8s, of course you won't be able to just easily plop it into a k8s cluster and everything be all well and good, but I think the problem is that people are equating that issue with k8s itself, which is a completely different paradigm.