>"The problem" is always the victim...never the people doing the victimization.
You are not being victimized. Your post was downvoted. It is not a big deal. Nothing bad happened to you here today.
>if they don't "contribute to the discussion" in the way they want then they are invalidated.
It is a community norm to downvote posts that do not contribute to the discussion. I like that norm. It's one of the reasons I choose to post here. If you don't like that rule, there may be other discussion boards more suited to you.
>If I laid out details...which I have done many times...those details would be ignored, picked apart, invalidated, twisted...and nothing good happens.
If you choose to assume, before you post anything, that you cannot expect the people here to be reasonable, then there is no reason to post here at all. Why would you expect people to believe you when you give no information, given that you do not expect them to believe you if you do give the information?
Nobody can do anything for you if you won't let them.
You are not being victimized. Your post was downvoted. It is not a big deal. Nothing bad happened to you here today.
>if they don't "contribute to the discussion" in the way they want then they are invalidated.
It is a community norm to downvote posts that do not contribute to the discussion. I like that norm. It's one of the reasons I choose to post here. If you don't like that rule, there may be other discussion boards more suited to you.
>If I laid out details...which I have done many times...those details would be ignored, picked apart, invalidated, twisted...and nothing good happens.
If you choose to assume, before you post anything, that you cannot expect the people here to be reasonable, then there is no reason to post here at all. Why would you expect people to believe you when you give no information, given that you do not expect them to believe you if you do give the information?
Nobody can do anything for you if you won't let them.