you spent most of your post complaining about being a military wife, which is the very definition of a life choice, both in the choice to get married and the choice to stay.
And before you go 100% offended, keep in mind that I learned the lesson of the importance of decision making as a life skill when I was living on the side of the river in a pup tent due to a string of decisions made by my abusive father in law and my mother (in late fall/winter).
Yes, I can also throw out facts about my life to try and garner sympathy points.
But none of that matters because at the end of the day, you own your own decisions. Anything else is just you sitting in a puddle of your own shit and piss and crying about how the world has treated you because you refuse to stand up and go clean yourself.
And a part of that decision making is standing up for yourself. If you feel the world and your husband is forcing you into a gender role you don't want to be in, tell them to go fuck themselves.
And before you go 100% offended, keep in mind that I learned the lesson of the importance of decision making as a life skill when I was living on the side of the river in a pup tent due to a string of decisions made by my abusive father in law and my mother (in late fall/winter).
Yes, I can also throw out facts about my life to try and garner sympathy points.
But none of that matters because at the end of the day, you own your own decisions. Anything else is just you sitting in a puddle of your own shit and piss and crying about how the world has treated you because you refuse to stand up and go clean yourself.
And a part of that decision making is standing up for yourself. If you feel the world and your husband is forcing you into a gender role you don't want to be in, tell them to go fuck themselves.