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Comment by arrty88
It sounds like all of these problems have to do with the driver profile. My grandpa's 1999 Buick Park Ave had 2 key fobs. Each fob was paired with a different driver profile. Depending on which fob unlocked the car, the seat and preferences were adjusted instantly. Surely BMW can do something similar here.
My only advice is to talk to your salesman / dealer and see if they can set you straight.