I have never understood this and this very issue has caused trouble in my romantic relationships.
Here's my thought process: why would someone talk about something if they don't want input? It seems like a waste of time.
Where's the gap in my thinking? Is there some way I can mentally reframe my thought process so that I 1) Don't immediately try to solve the problem and 2) Don't get annoyed at my significant other for wasting my time.
Here's my thought process: why would someone talk about something if they don't want input? It seems like a waste of time.
Where's the gap in my thinking? Is there some way I can mentally reframe my thought process so that I 1) Don't immediately try to solve the problem and 2) Don't get annoyed at my significant other for wasting my time.