If you've been married for a while, learn who your spouse is now. (I mean in a good way, by taking an hour to rediscover what his/her hopes and dreams are, what interests they've gained / lost, etc.)
He/she is probably a pretty different person than the one you married. It's easy to overlook that.
He/she is probably a pretty different person than the one you married. It's easy to overlook that.