Agreed! I've been running my own mail server for 20+ years, and I would not recommend that anybody do this on a lark. Deliverability to GMail is a huge problem for me and has been for years. I even asked friends at Google to find out what the story was. All I got back is that the mail group was so careful/paranoid it wouldn't talk to them either.
I would long ago have switched over to a vendor, but I use qmail-style tagging for sub-addresses (that is, instead of user+sub@domain, I use user-sub@domain). Almost nobody supports that. Especially not GMail (where my friends could tell me that was tagged as WONTFIX).
If anybody has solved this, please do let me know (on here, via Twitter, or the email address in my bio). It's maddening.
I would long ago have switched over to a vendor, but I use qmail-style tagging for sub-addresses (that is, instead of user+sub@domain, I use user-sub@domain). Almost nobody supports that. Especially not GMail (where my friends could tell me that was tagged as WONTFIX).
If anybody has solved this, please do let me know (on here, via Twitter, or the email address in my bio). It's maddening.