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We do quiet time in my home where my kids go to their rooms with a small activity box for acouple hours. They hated it at first because they were “bored”, now they love it.

The amazing things they come up with when I come back to the room to let them know it’s over. I’ve never seen them play the same way twice. They get bored at first, and then get creative, which turns into a ton of fun for them as they imagine new ways to use a toy.

It’s common now for them to hang out for another 30-40 minutes to finish their play scenario they built over that two hours.

It’s an investment in creativity, making more with less, there is no technology involved, just wood blocks, a few figures maybe, puzzles, or books, and I’m constantly impressed now with what they are doing with their time.

The constant feeling that parents need to have non stop activity, education, and entertainment for their kids I think is one of the biggest detriments to their development.

Let kids be kids, let them play, let them screw up, and let them figure it out themselves.

We are raising future adults, not just biologically older children.

parent spaginal 7 years ago

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