Comment by gonzo41

You are totally right about the workaholics. I have energy, destructive or constructive. My environment chooses which way that energy flows. I'm lucky I have a 100 year old house that steals all my time with needing to be fixed otherwise I'd be finding trouble on the weekends. I think a lot of men exist lacking hard physical and mentally demanding work, like working in a factory or on a farm, that can act as an outlet and as a thing to be proud of.