Ask HN: Where do you go for career advice?

I'm a very lost right now as to my career and a number of things surrounding it. I've tried r/cscareerquestions on Reddit and their discord, but it seems that it's mostly students with high hopes and I found myself lending more advice than receiving. I've also made posts on HN on the past asking specifics, but they rarely gain more any traction.

Is there any good places you know of for this stuff? I'm at a point right now in my life where I feel like I'm wasting.