Asshole: people who you don't like. Every interaction with others should make you feel good about yourself otherwise the other person is an asshole. You are never an asshole by definition, of course. Maybe a victim, but asshole -- never. Diversity means having people around who think and behave the same way as you do but have different hairdo or different thing between their legs. Introverted or depressed people are assholes, needless to say. Again, the most important thing for you to prioritize is your own good feelings about yourself because everything that's non-assholey in the world is designed to make you feel good.
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