Comment by minnca

Interview vibes matter. As a woman, if the men (it's usually men) that interview me talk down to me or use patronizing language (however subtle), that's a red flag, though not necessarily a deal-breaker. Also, it's a personal pet peeve of mine if men constantly hold the door/say "after you" and let me walk through the door first. That's a sign that they treat women as "ladies" (just fyi to men, pls don't call the women you work with "ladies") not colleagues. You can usually pick up on this (the door thing) in an interview, in my experience.