Ask HN: How do you find a mentor or coach for your startup?

For context, many of the online mentorship programs I've tried focus only on "growth hacking" and SEO. Throughout my software development career I've had mentors who helped coach me by understanding my needs, identifying my weaknesses and strengths, and just overall helpful growth discussions.

As a startup founder, I'm struggling to find a mentor like that. Any advice from other startup founders?