You seem to be assuming there is a lot of peer pressure placed on you if you don’t want to do it.
Why?
I’m simply saying there are always social costs. For example you probably won’t be listened to as much when there are conversations around improving system stability.
It’s like our after work Friday drinks are entirely optional - but lots of people build friendships and trust there and this can often lead to higher productivity.
If you can build these friendships another way or have a different path to an equivalently high productivity then not going doesn’t have an impact on you.
You seem to be assuming there is a lot of peer pressure placed on you if you don’t want to do it.
Why?
I’m simply saying there are always social costs. For example you probably won’t be listened to as much when there are conversations around improving system stability.
It’s like our after work Friday drinks are entirely optional - but lots of people build friendships and trust there and this can often lead to higher productivity.
If you can build these friendships another way or have a different path to an equivalently high productivity then not going doesn’t have an impact on you.