Ask HN: Remote developers with a spouse/kids, where do you live?

I've just scored my first 100% remote developer job making $150k a year. My wife is a full-time parent. We have two kids that are under 4 and currently live in Los Angeles. I'm over the high cost of living, crowds, smog, and have a feeling that we should move to save money, but I'm not sure where.

What do you like/dislike about where you live?

Where would you live if you could? Why?