Comment by frossie

Reading this really makes me want to recommend the Norwegian movie Elling - it's witty, completely unschmaltzy and hints at a pretty good answer on what good care for adult mentally challenged folk looks like.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0279064/

It's streamable on Netflix for the US-based folks:

http://www.netflix.com/Movie/Elling/60025098