I don't think xab9 is denying that your wife made you a better person and see things in a different light. That's awesome and you should be proud of her. But your comments keep showing a form of dependancy that can quickly spiral out of control and turn against you (personally I have been there). A psychologist can be a tremendous help in preventing such situations.
Like xab9's comment, please do not take offence in my comment either.
Like xab9's comment, please do not take offence in my comment either.