Remember, it's basically only Linux distros that have the capability to upgrade a third-party library like that (ironically, distro maintainers actually have the source code required to recompile everything if they wanted!).
Mac and Windows applications ship bundled versions of third party libraries all the time. Managing a complex web of name+version based dependencies is much harder in a decentralized software ecosystem, so bundling starts to look attractive.
For our purposes, the benefit of a system where software is more reliable, predictable, and accountable is greater than the cost of asking developers to recompile in unusual circumstances.
Mac and Windows applications ship bundled versions of third party libraries all the time. Managing a complex web of name+version based dependencies is much harder in a decentralized software ecosystem, so bundling starts to look attractive.
For our purposes, the benefit of a system where software is more reliable, predictable, and accountable is greater than the cost of asking developers to recompile in unusual circumstances.