Marriage is a lie. In America and much of Europe, just under half of marriages end in divorce. Any honest person would answer their vows with not "I do" but "probably". We like the idea of lifelong fidelity, but it simply isn't a practical reality for most people. We need to be honest with ourselves.
We're all smart people here. None of us would be so stupid as to sign a really bad VC agreement because we really liked the VC. Why do so many of us willingly sign bad contracts in our personal life? If someone here was signing an agreement with a startup cofounder that had no stock vesting clause and no provisions to secure IP, we'd be in like a shot to warn them. If someone here announced their engagement, I'm sure we'd all congratulate them. Marriage is objectively a terrible financial deal, particularly for the likes of us, but we ignore how bad a deal it is for purely sentimental reasons.
We're all smart people here. None of us would be so stupid as to sign a really bad VC agreement because we really liked the VC. Why do so many of us willingly sign bad contracts in our personal life? If someone here was signing an agreement with a startup cofounder that had no stock vesting clause and no provisions to secure IP, we'd be in like a shot to warn them. If someone here announced their engagement, I'm sure we'd all congratulate them. Marriage is objectively a terrible financial deal, particularly for the likes of us, but we ignore how bad a deal it is for purely sentimental reasons.