That reading may possibly, maybe have made sense in the early stages. Like when they were 12. But at some point she literally told him "stop messaging me so much or I'll block you". And even before that, he's well outside of societal norms.
The guy then switches to insults and threats. Going from there and explaining it away with "oh, poor guy, might have felt rude and personal to him" is quite the stretch.
The guy is an active stalker. Let's stop making excuses for horrible behavior. He's not "confused". He's malicious. He's threatening. He's trying to destroy her livelihood.
It's not women "having a different perspective than men", it's men like you continuing to make excuse after excuse for men who behave like sociopaths.
The guy then switches to insults and threats. Going from there and explaining it away with "oh, poor guy, might have felt rude and personal to him" is quite the stretch.
The guy is an active stalker. Let's stop making excuses for horrible behavior. He's not "confused". He's malicious. He's threatening. He's trying to destroy her livelihood.
It's not women "having a different perspective than men", it's men like you continuing to make excuse after excuse for men who behave like sociopaths.