I wrote this in another comment somewhere, but do you think her coworkers were only like this in casual conversations and social situations, and treated her as a complete equal professionally? Or do you think their attitudes might have affected how they viewed her work, what she was assigned, her opportunities for advancement, etc.
It doesn't matter how "fun" you are when people who have power over you are doing this. It's not about being offended, it's about being unequal.
It doesn't matter how "fun" you are when people who have power over you are doing this. It's not about being offended, it's about being unequal.