> [An extreme commuter] typically logs a 10- to 12-hour workday, returning home at close to midnight.... “Our little guy goes to bed at 9 p.m., which is not so cool, but he loves the backyard and neighborhood, so it’s completely worth it.”
I'm not judging this guy, but I can't understand the mental math here. So much of parenting is just being there as life happens. Noticing when things are off. Giving impromptu love, advice, and correction.
How do we make sure we're not just suffering from confirmation bias when we say these choices are a net win?
I'm not judging this guy, but I can't understand the mental math here. So much of parenting is just being there as life happens. Noticing when things are off. Giving impromptu love, advice, and correction.
How do we make sure we're not just suffering from confirmation bias when we say these choices are a net win?