Mexican-Americans have a saying for that "Ni de aquí, ni de allá" - "Not from here, not from there".
I remember a quote from a Mexican-American movie (Selena) "We have to be more Mexican than the Mexicans and more American than the Americans, both at the same time! It's exhausting!"
I remember a quote from a Mexican-American movie (Selena) "We have to be more Mexican than the Mexicans and more American than the Americans, both at the same time! It's exhausting!"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUZ5Yhwzz80