Comment by CountHackulus

If memory usage matters to you, have you tried telling the JVM not to use all the memory? Have you tried any of the tuning options? Can't say I've ever used app engine, but the pure java applications I've worked on did in fact use a fair bit of memory, much like windows and OSX will aggressively use spare memory for caching. Then I use -Xmx to tell it not to use all the memory and now it's much better. For a server, I'd say that this is both expected and the correct behaviour.