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Comment by SturgeonsLaw

> roommates who mocked me

Just curious, did you perceive a certain level of malice with their mocking, or was it more lighthearted? I can't speak for Americans, but here in Australia, mocking from your friends is a sign of acceptance and mateship. It's a way of indirectly indicating that you're comfortable enough with someone to knock them around a bit, it's a complimentary way of saying "I know you're strong enough to handle it".

I don't want to risk sidelining your experience, but is there a chance they may have seen you as one of the boys?

parent SturgeonsLaw 10 years ago

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