I've been thinking about this a lot lately....I think "why didn't you just use a different tone" is very similar to how people that grew up in environments where everything went right when they say to people struggling "why don't you just do x,y,z". The problem is, they don't know how.
I've been thinking about this a lot lately....I think "why didn't you just use a different tone" is very similar to how people that grew up in environments where everything went right when they say to people struggling "why don't you just do x,y,z". The problem is, they don't know how.