Ask HN: 30+ men and women in software, how much do you make?

I am curious to know what men and women 30 and beyond make. I just turned 31 and have decade of experience. I am excited being in my 30s but concerned at the same time. I am well aware of and have witnessed ageism. I know if you stay good there are no lack of opportunities. However, once you buy house and have kids picture change dramatically.

I am single and yet to find a woman who I like enough to marry. Kids are off for me for at least 4 more yrs.

I will start with myself. I live in Seattle, 10 yrs of experience and make 135k (not Amazon).

How much do you make and what's your story?