It's not perfect, but YunoHost is a very big step forward in that direction and it's making progress https://yunohost.org
And to fix the "ISP sucks" we have started to package an "just work out of the box" solution in the FFDN, a federation of local associative ISPs https://internetcu.be/
The trick is to use a "internet cleaning" VPN that gave you a static ip address and that this VPN is handled by an association in which you are a member and that you can trust.
And to fix the "ISP sucks" we have started to package an "just work out of the box" solution in the FFDN, a federation of local associative ISPs https://internetcu.be/
The trick is to use a "internet cleaning" VPN that gave you a static ip address and that this VPN is handled by an association in which you are a member and that you can trust.