You don't need to have an expensive wedding, worthy of emptying a retirement savings account. You can still have a wedding, just don't spend 40 years of savings on it.
And you can still go to college, but go to a state college and live at home. The con these private universities are pulling on the middle class is something for the history books. They sell this "university lifestyle" to impressionable, naive high schoolers who then throw themselves (or parents) into stupid amounts of debt just to live the lifestyle.
And you can still go to college, but go to a state college and live at home. The con these private universities are pulling on the middle class is something for the history books. They sell this "university lifestyle" to impressionable, naive high schoolers who then throw themselves (or parents) into stupid amounts of debt just to live the lifestyle.